A question guys: What is the rough ratio that you initiate sex with your gf / wife?
I ask because I've always been far more highly sexed than my relatively undersexed gf (she says her drive is normal). From the start of our 20-year relationship, I've overwhelmingly been the initiator, and that hasn't bothered me. In fact, I can't remember more than a handful of times that my gf initiated in the first 15 years, although she was always eager when we started and orgasms nearly every time....
Who initiates? and when do you stop being the initiator?
I ask because I've always been far more highly sexed than my relatively undersexed gf (she says her drive is normal). From the start of our 20-year relationship, I've overwhelmingly been the initiator, and that hasn't bothered me. In fact, I can't remember more than a handful of times that my gf initiated in the first 15 years, although she was always eager when we started and orgasms nearly every time....
Who initiates? and when do you stop being the initiator?