interracial relationships

So here I find myself in an interracial relationship. I was married to a woman and had kids. Finally figured it out.

My first boyfriend was like me - white, midwestern, calm, vanilla.

Now my second bf is black, hot, spicy, from the south and has a mouth from the south.

Wow.

I love the spice. I love the sexiness.

But we are culturally so different.

I'd love to connect with others in this situation.