Lost another gay male friend to complications from aids...

Come on guys, enough with the nightclub restroom hookups. Please stop killing yourselves. Millions of us straight girls depend on you for fashion and decorating advice.

I know it's considered "uncool" in the gay community to have a committed monogamous relationship, but you should really try it. At the very least, use a condom when you're having anal intercourse.

I love gay men and am a huge supporter of your lifestyle and community, but enough is enough...